The Soul Mate......

I always wanted to write about this topic, somehow, did not get time - also was not sure, how comfortable I would be to write this topic. But unless I put this in black and white, share the life lessons I learnt the harder way and the little psychology that I have observed might go in vain, if this does not get a proper structure. The soul mate ** , The perfect match**, The best couple *** is all a myth - may be Greatest imagination of our minds. (please do not get annoyed,I'll tell you How) Our mind keeps searching for the best..... in everything. Our Soul keeps on trying to become the Best.... So our search for the best partner is a process. And it so happens that we might think someone is best for us as we mix the person with the character of our imagination - giving a completely different picture for the person. We enjoy their company, love them so well, as we mix reality with the imagination and that is where we feel the CUPID is working. So, until, we get to see the person so close, we may not identify how different they could be from that of the imagination. Marriage, is an encounter, to know people who they are and it reveals the true self of both the partners, this is the point where CUPID, abruptly moves off from the place. Now, here is where, people blame each other for the have nots.... the real problem sets in. The success of marriage lies, on how well people understand the intensity of the issue, without blaming the other for the self imagination. Time could reveal things better, in case a longer relationship other than a marriage. The best possible solution for this issue is not to search for the best in others, rather to enhance ourselves to become the best, so that we might be a wonder in someone's life. Then we move on with spirituality if our search keeps moving on in the path of becoming the best - which might totally differ from the topic discussed here.