The Malayalam movie - "The Great Indian Kitchen"

It took some days for me, to complete the movie. I always see movies, but could not somehow see in a strecth due to time constraints. Well, I m not saying I'm too busy for anything, I Just say, watching movies is not in my priority list, to allocate time, during the weekend schedule. Still just to relieve myself from monotony, I do watch movies, which has a good story line. Both the cast, were super performing, right apt to the extent of passing on the crux of the story. I could not say, I simply watched a movie - It just took myself in, to a certian extent - though I did not toil so badly. I could see every Indian Women in the role,each one will somehow be able to relate herself with the story, as Indian Men are so .... as described in the story. Adding flame, the visitor, who came to help was a further step ahead, spoils and ruins the situation. The Climax to me, looks so real, may be for some - it might look little extentric. we were raised for something else, Trained all our lives to dream bigger in Career and life, Eventually, women's lives ends up with sacrifices, where she will be so good, if she does not voice out for herself and ignores herself and her needs to the least, putting all the others at her priority list, serving the entire life. While Men, do they live a happy life? The answer is also 'No' - As long as the wife lives "He is the King" and after the wife passes away, he turns out be be a person who will be like "No one needs him " Wake up Traditions, atleast to improve the common quality of life, helping and serving each other.

How stressed are you???

Stress is a feeling of physical tension or an emotion. It can come from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous. Stress is your body's reaction to a challenge or demand. For a very short period, stress can be positive, such as when it helps you avoid danger or meet a deadline. Science defines stress as “The restoring force per unit area of the material”. It is a tensor quantity. Denoted by Greek letter σ. Measured using Pascal or N/m2 However, we say that we are humans, we as cultured corporates wants to stress our coworkers, subordinates, in the name of reputation, pride and many more. All of us desire to hold positions, to acquire power and boss over a said group. People wanted to be successful not by their leadership quality, but simply by bossing over, finding faults, assigning who to hold for mistakes. In fact, the entire world is working in a similar fashion, making it extremely unhealthy physically and mentally. May be we cannot change the world, we can change ourselves, the way we look, the way we take things, how we move on from emotions and how to make us productive once again. 1. Space out things, with respect to time and situations. 2. Try, focus and try harder without losing heart..... 3. Compete everyday, not withanyone else, but yourself each day, that you will be better than yesterday. 4. Accept mistakes, appreciate yourself for accepting it boldly 5. Understand, that there is no growth without mistakes. 6. Mistakes are nothing but self experiments,(primary data/experience) the learning will be really useful. 7. Bury the guilts, forgive yourself, every single day 8. Move on with your new learning, appreciate yourself, don't expect appreciations (people will just be ready to fix responsibilities and find faults) 9. Admire yourself, inside and out 10. Motivate yourself with appearance, character and rich values. Above all.... have time for meditation. Life is becoming harder, each day. Being stressed is not so rare, its very common. Being cool, no matter what, will make you special. People need cool ones, just to have hope to move on with life.

The Soul Mate......

I always wanted to write about this topic, somehow, did not get time - also was not sure, how comfortable I would be to write this topic. But unless I put this in black and white, share the life lessons I learnt the harder way and the little psychology that I have observed might go in vain, if this does not get a proper structure. The soul mate ** , The perfect match**, The best couple *** is all a myth - may be Greatest imagination of our minds. (please do not get annoyed,I'll tell you How) Our mind keeps searching for the best..... in everything. Our Soul keeps on trying to become the Best.... So our search for the best partner is a process. And it so happens that we might think someone is best for us as we mix the person with the character of our imagination - giving a completely different picture for the person. We enjoy their company, love them so well, as we mix reality with the imagination and that is where we feel the CUPID is working. So, until, we get to see the person so close, we may not identify how different they could be from that of the imagination. Marriage, is an encounter, to know people who they are and it reveals the true self of both the partners, this is the point where CUPID, abruptly moves off from the place. Now, here is where, people blame each other for the have nots.... the real problem sets in. The success of marriage lies, on how well people understand the intensity of the issue, without blaming the other for the self imagination. Time could reveal things better, in case a longer relationship other than a marriage. The best possible solution for this issue is not to search for the best in others, rather to enhance ourselves to become the best, so that we might be a wonder in someone's life. Then we move on with spirituality if our search keeps moving on in the path of becoming the best - which might totally differ from the topic discussed here.