There should have been controversies in the mind's of people, but many does not dare to come out and tell the world, that how could "cupid" play a role in an arranged marriage, where the groom decides to wed the bride on a single day at a mere look.
People have strongly been opposed, for letting the world know, that it is hard to decide as such, because for centuries this is the practice here in India,since people had proved to live happily with their better half, with the same arranged marriage.
Some traits and factors like the supposed behavior of the lady as per the culture, that is been taught to the Indian women, right from their childhood, have definitely contributed to the success of marriages in India.
On the other hand, marriages on understanding (I prefer to call this way instead of Love marriage)also has its own advantages, but many times, they fail, because understanding in the Indian scenario, never happens the right way. Mostly they would try and understand the person's likes and dislikes which they mention in slam books on the final day of school or college.
If asked, which is better - i probably will not have an answer, because the success of marriage does not depend on the type of marriage, we call - but the people involved in marriage and their dedication towards marriage.
Even if we like it or not, we have decided and promised before God, that we would love and keep him/her at happiness no matter how good /bad situation is. Hence, it is nothing wrong to love them abundantly and show them the love which we have at heart in all the ways we can. Love hided in mind, can never be understood.
We will not have / afford to have too many spouses (that is definitely not right)to let them assume things about their better half and situations. After all we have just one (no more spares), so how much should we take enough care to make them happy and satisfied in life.
One would consider a life worth living, if he/she considers his/her marriage successful. It is not only a responsibility of every spouse to make the other feel so, but if they cannot love and make their better halves happy, who else they can???
What can we give the world in return, for the time we spent here, resources we use, relationships we earn.... Just nothing....
Why not the true love which makes at-least our better-half have a life worth living?
Long live marriages!!! Let God be with all the married couples!!! Let Him bless them and grant their desires come True!!!
All Glory to God, who thought marriages are good and made man and woman live together as family.
1 comment:
Nice one..one of your best - aLeX
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