The Malayalam movie - "The Great Indian Kitchen"

It took some days for me, to complete the movie. I always see movies, but could not somehow see in a strecth due to time constraints. Well, I m not saying I'm too busy for anything, I Just say, watching movies is not in my priority list, to allocate time, during the weekend schedule. Still just to relieve myself from monotony, I do watch movies, which has a good story line. Both the cast, were super performing, right apt to the extent of passing on the crux of the story. I could not say, I simply watched a movie - It just took myself in, to a certian extent - though I did not toil so badly. I could see every Indian Women in the role,each one will somehow be able to relate herself with the story, as Indian Men are so .... as described in the story. Adding flame, the visitor, who came to help was a further step ahead, spoils and ruins the situation. The Climax to me, looks so real, may be for some - it might look little extentric. we were raised for something else, Trained all our lives to dream bigger in Career and life, Eventually, women's lives ends up with sacrifices, where she will be so good, if she does not voice out for herself and ignores herself and her needs to the least, putting all the others at her priority list, serving the entire life. While Men, do they live a happy life? The answer is also 'No' - As long as the wife lives "He is the King" and after the wife passes away, he turns out be be a person who will be like "No one needs him " Wake up Traditions, atleast to improve the common quality of life, helping and serving each other.

How stressed are you???

Stress is a feeling of physical tension or an emotion. It can come from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous. Stress is your body's reaction to a challenge or demand. For a very short period, stress can be positive, such as when it helps you avoid danger or meet a deadline. Science defines stress as “The restoring force per unit area of the material”. It is a tensor quantity. Denoted by Greek letter σ. Measured using Pascal or N/m2 However, we say that we are humans, we as cultured corporates wants to stress our coworkers, subordinates, in the name of reputation, pride and many more. All of us desire to hold positions, to acquire power and boss over a said group. People wanted to be successful not by their leadership quality, but simply by bossing over, finding faults, assigning who to hold for mistakes. In fact, the entire world is working in a similar fashion, making it extremely unhealthy physically and mentally. May be we cannot change the world, we can change ourselves, the way we look, the way we take things, how we move on from emotions and how to make us productive once again. 1. Space out things, with respect to time and situations. 2. Try, focus and try harder without losing heart..... 3. Compete everyday, not withanyone else, but yourself each day, that you will be better than yesterday. 4. Accept mistakes, appreciate yourself for accepting it boldly 5. Understand, that there is no growth without mistakes. 6. Mistakes are nothing but self experiments,(primary data/experience) the learning will be really useful. 7. Bury the guilts, forgive yourself, every single day 8. Move on with your new learning, appreciate yourself, don't expect appreciations (people will just be ready to fix responsibilities and find faults) 9. Admire yourself, inside and out 10. Motivate yourself with appearance, character and rich values. Above all.... have time for meditation. Life is becoming harder, each day. Being stressed is not so rare, its very common. Being cool, no matter what, will make you special. People need cool ones, just to have hope to move on with life.

The Soul Mate......

I always wanted to write about this topic, somehow, did not get time - also was not sure, how comfortable I would be to write this topic. But unless I put this in black and white, share the life lessons I learnt the harder way and the little psychology that I have observed might go in vain, if this does not get a proper structure. The soul mate ** , The perfect match**, The best couple *** is all a myth - may be Greatest imagination of our minds. (please do not get annoyed,I'll tell you How) Our mind keeps searching for the best..... in everything. Our Soul keeps on trying to become the Best.... So our search for the best partner is a process. And it so happens that we might think someone is best for us as we mix the person with the character of our imagination - giving a completely different picture for the person. We enjoy their company, love them so well, as we mix reality with the imagination and that is where we feel the CUPID is working. So, until, we get to see the person so close, we may not identify how different they could be from that of the imagination. Marriage, is an encounter, to know people who they are and it reveals the true self of both the partners, this is the point where CUPID, abruptly moves off from the place. Now, here is where, people blame each other for the have nots.... the real problem sets in. The success of marriage lies, on how well people understand the intensity of the issue, without blaming the other for the self imagination. Time could reveal things better, in case a longer relationship other than a marriage. The best possible solution for this issue is not to search for the best in others, rather to enhance ourselves to become the best, so that we might be a wonder in someone's life. Then we move on with spirituality if our search keeps moving on in the path of becoming the best - which might totally differ from the topic discussed here.

Episodes of my life - A trail for autobiography - Introduction

I am greatly blessed, for my creator is taking care of me in every single walk of life. Now I am 36 years, a teacher of a reputed school, a mother of two kids, supported by my parents, family, friends and well wishers. Just like anyone; my life is also a bundle of mistakes and errors. But I m really happy to write about it, for how God saved me from difficult situations and how his grace is still guiding me every single day. We all have a vision,a dream how our life should be, what should be the guiding factor,what drives us and so on. But there is something really important for "the man proposes and God disposes" and may be considering this fact,we are asked to discuss our life and our plans with God, (through prayers) so when he approves, there is all success and grace. Without such a discussion and prayers, however brillant we think we are, we will end up with problems and confusions. I wish to bring every part of my life here, for now I have no regrets for what I m and what I m becoming to be. Though I have so much to say, said and continue to say, it's never over. So I am writing... Dedicated to all my contributors of life. Specially to all my friends who are inspiring me to write. Thank you and happy reading.

Letter to Jesus

Jesus, my Jesus I want to talk to you.we adore you, we love you for the way you lived. But Jesus, I need you,longing for you,why dont you come to meet me once in my life, when u m still living. Oh yes Jesus, we meet your men and women and know,taste who you are;how you lived.Blessed for i knew about you through them. Yet, a big space in my heart is longing to feel with my senses to see you once, to talk to you. May be it might cost my life,still I feel it is worth it. Like a little child, my heart waits for you,long to love you, need to hug you,put your arms on my cheek and love to cry for sometime. Jesus, my Jesus would you love me too. Come Jesus, come kiss me once that I may feel. Oh Jesus my Jesus! Heard you cried for women even when you were about to be crucified. Would you also come to me,to sit and listen to my irrelevant speeches. I know you Jesus, I know I can just jump holding your hand even from a mountain taller than Himalayas. Oh my Love! My Jesus Love me too. Come to me,take my tears,hold my face in your arms. Do no miracles to me! But be with me! When you leave my place,take me too with you! Reach me my Love! My Jesus, before I get really tired and worn out!

My recent discovery about the Bible...

The Holy Bible is a book which is very different from the rest of the books that it could be read as a novel, or a science fiction and biographies too. Everytime you read, it looks as if you are reading new and it reveals more towards enlightenment and wisdom. In fact from the time I started to read, I have been reading Bible, the very same Bible; but I have never been clear or kind of knowing everything the Bible contains. By the way I am a master degree holder, so certain of learning numerous books and I remember the concepts and if I could brush I could recollect whatever I had learnt so far. But with Bible it is not so. It is like only at a certain time the Bible reveals a particular chapter so that you could associate it with your life. One such instance is when I read the book of 2nd Kings I could understand the moral story of the woodcutter and the three axes the angel brought from the river has a resemblence of a miracle of Prophet Elisha did. Well I have heard it is a book of life,wisdom, guidelines, and a different kind of cellular phone which could connect you with the heaven and it's Master. All I have to continue is to spend some quality time with it. Happy reading the Bible!!!

Faith

Sometimes life becomes numb, when you cannot move forward, with the right values which you think, is important to follow. God always being a passive listener, in all our activities in the everyday life. i only feel, the life here, is an examination hall, with un-revealed question paper as situations and time being a consistent marker which changes your attitude. after all we humans are a bundle of flesh with enhanced abilities,like a beautiful pillow with its cover.our mere strength lies in our soul, how we stand up in trails and tribulations.i seriously have no idea, of the evaluation method God has for us. sometimes, i feel, now on, i cannot carry more, God has to come all the way to do miracles. Life is not how i saw it when i was a child, or it wasn't how i read in the books - it is like a bag full of shocks, surprises and i am unable to react. may be now i have been tested all the way through and i think i had to keep numb, for God to work on...