Good Dresses, Cheering smile, a good car, Good Looking Home, A Understanding spouse and Intelligent & Disciplined children... is what every human is striving to get in the world. To get all these, you need Hard work (though you like such hard work /or a mere desire to acquire money is a differernt case) and a pleasing Behaviour (though, you are so / mere act - also does not matter)
Nothing wrong, to have such a Desire. But there is always a contradictory unusual unhappiness in everyone's Life. Infact, Everybody's Life ends in a Tradegy - The Death.
The above mentioned things, look like a Dream, all the time and it looks so unpractical to a minimum extent.
Reaching God, The road goes to a different unusual or un expected lane - which is far far distant to the road which get you the dreams of the world. Home, Spouse, children --- Though it brings so much of Happiness; God - reaching and realizing , is the Extreme way to ever ending Happiness.
Reaching God, is Uncertainly not an impossibility. But you need a firm decision to sit and listen to Him, to wait and talk to Him. He has answered, the one, who waits with full Hope. (No matter the cause is worldly or ertenity)
Realizing God, is a vast Art, where you need no good clothes, no better shoes, no good opinions, no cosmetics, no certificates. But a firm state of mind, to reach God and Surrender oneself completely to Him.
Letting the Human Soul to reach its Master, while at Life, could be the Greatest achievement, one can have during his Lifetime.
Still, with Young Kids and a sweet family, it is little difficult, to become a Sage, finding meaning for life. But no Hopelessness, it can happen any time, if we are prepared for it.
