Friday, November 26, 2010

Intuition - "thoughts and preferences that come to mind quickly and without much reflection"


Its hard to explain what an "intuition" is, without the help of a dictionary, when there is a situation; to explain people, that your intuition is right. Some people are not wise enough to think beyond the horizon, and plan things.

I am one such stupid always moved with my intuitions. I am not proud, also not feeling great my intuitions are proved. But i could not stop following it, nor could argue that they are true and could not make people believe the way i was carried away by the same.

May be i am programmed to remain Silent by the Creator, while he works out things for me. Though many times, i know it and realize even before it's actual occurrance. I have never bothered about my people criticizing for my intuitions - not that i don't mind; but most of the time; i remain helpless without words or actions to stand for my intuitions. I just know, that i can never claim that it was me, who have done it - that something happened, just the way my intuitions have told me.

But when, it hurts my people, i rather feel bad; and blame myself for following my intuitions. Even now it says, "Hold on, this is temporary, you will see great things ahead - Nothing has come to an end, still life continues; and things will be clear than what is it now"

Until then, i (had to)will Hold on; with hope...

I don't know, if somebody else is like me. I have never had an appropriate answer, of any kind of question anybody asks. But I believe certain things, without a reason...

And i don't know what to call it other than "Intuition"

Friday, November 12, 2010

Agree to Disagree


A naked Truth is not one human can claim that he / she is perfect. Still, everybody evidences the expectations from others are set to be really perfect. Many times, certain nothings has eaten me,due to high expectations. Well, this would have been experienced by so many.

Another Bitter truth is, about the conflict of being a better person by oneself. Unless, one compromises with the past; it would be really difficult for the person to love himself/ herself.If this is the case, how could we expect others to be supernaturally human???

Though certain things are common, known fact, it becomes real challenging situations in terms of maintaining relationships. As abstracts, it might look like some trigonometrical formulae; But when it is applied to situations in terms of relationships, it becomes lot more meaningful.

Some (many) people wanted dolls, as their relations. Whatever, they wish to see, they want them to be, they expect them to be. It is nothing too funny to be criticized, since many of us, really wanted dolls, yet fail to express it due to reasons. It doesn't stop there, because those expectations would certainly react in a different way. We fail to realize, dolls doesn't exists in relationships.

Well, an average human cannot be too philosophical, with no expectations. Also, reacting to unsatisfied expectations would not help in anyway either.

Looks like i am kind of confusing, but its simple.

Agree to disagree with people, situations and expectations. Unless one does this, something would be eating up the minds forever.That doesn't mean that, you should stop telling, what you need from relations. Tell them, try make them understand and feel the necessity of fulfilling your need.

One might fail innumerable times, in making someone understand. Still keep Trying, You might be successful someday. Never react, it would not help other than damaging the relationship.

Always "Agree to Disagree" with Oneself, others and situations.